Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Five Simple Words You Need to Live Life to the Fullest

How do you define a meaningful life? Follow these five powerful words to find out how to live life wisely

Laugh

Like they say, laughter is the best medicine. No illness or worries can weigh you down when laughter is all you need to keep your spirits high and keep you moving ahead. Whenever you are feeling moody, try to force a laugh. Although it might be going against your true mood at that moment, you never know how your laughter, though a forced one, can lead to more silly laughter. And more often than not, you would laugh at how silly you were. You can choose to live a day by being happy or not. Whatever it is, the day would still pass eventually. So why not make it a happy one?

Reflect

It is always essential to reflect on the things you have done. Each night before you sleep, reflect on what you have done in the day. Have you accomplished something? Have you met the goals of the day? Or have you let the hours gone to waste? It is good to keep a personal diary. Reflect on your thoughts of the day. And write down your goals and future aspirations. When you have met them, reflect and track your own progression. Did you do your best? Is there any room for improvements?

Learn

Life has always been a journey of learning. You learnt since the day you were born, the day you opened your eyes to the world. You learnt about the colours in this world, the sounds of your surroundings, the place you grew up in, the people around you. There are so many things in life to learn. It is really more than what you learn in school. You need to observe and learn whenver you can. Life is short. And you only live once. Why not make full use of it by learning as much as you can? There is really a lot to learn everyday. Books, magazines, newspapers, television, internet. Pick up some hobbies or things you have strong interest in. Develop your own interest and passion in those field. Thinking of picking up the piano? Well, do it! Who knows you can tap into what you have learnt and make a living out of it!

Relax

Life really isn't all about work. The hectic societal life has forced us to be concerned about work and money, about promotion, recognition, and acknowledgements. While we do slog hard for all these, we must not forget about one thing. It is to relax. Try to have at least 8 hours of sleep a day. Research has shown that having sufficient sleep makes the mind work better the following day, as it rejuvenates and refreshes. Leave the weekends aside for some family and relationship activities, some quality social time with friends, or to indulge in some personal hobbies. If possible, go for a holiday! You deserve a break, you know it.

Love

It is the most desired asset of all. It is a universal language. A life without love is a life not lived. It is true. We all want to feel appreciated by the people around us. We want our parents to be proud of us, family to be always around us for moral support, our partners or spouses to be there to share our happiness and sorrows. We all want to be loved unconditionally. We need to start from ourselves. Have you told somebody you love him or her? Have you been donating to charities and spreading love to others? Have you neglected someone because of busy work schedule? Have you forgotten to love? To love and to be loved, that is the greatest thing that one can ever learn.

Live life to the fullest!!


Life is short
 
Break the rules
 
forgive quickly
 
kiss passionately, love truly
 
laugh constantly
 
And never stop smiling 
no matter how strange life is
 
Life is not always the party we expected to be
 
but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.

What is the purpose of life?

Come across tis nice article and would like to share~~

Philosophically, one can begin with the question: "What is the purpose of life?" One could even give a standard answer: "To help others." But as the philosopher Charles Schultz once pointed out, this answer begs the question. What is the purpose of the lives of others?

And philosophically, there is a problem with the question. Philosophy distinguishes between facts and valuesFacts include things like, "It is raining" and "Water boils at 100 degrees Celsius". Values motivate statements like "I like bananas", "I want to marry you" and "Something should be done to stop the depletion of ozone from the atmosphere". Values are concerned with aesthetics, motivation and emotion -- attributes of living organisms. Questions like "What is the purpose of the Universe?" or "What is the purpose of Life?" are only answerable by intelligent beings, groups of intelligent beings or (perhaps) by supernatural beings. Only living beings have purposes. And ultimately, to ask someone else "What is the purpose of life?" in search of an answer, is to surrender self-control and ask "What purpose do you have for my life?"

Therefore, it makes no sense to ask if the survival of any one person or even the whole of humankind matters in some objective sense. A god-like Being may make judgements concerning the value of humankind, but the physical universe makes no such judgements. It is living beings who make judgements and have purposes -- and rarely with unanimity.

Given that judgements and purposes are only attributes of living beings, whose purpose is most important? The government's? Your mother's? Your own? The last answer may seem selfish and self-centered, but whether you acknowledge it or not, you have ultimate responsibility for deciding what purposes are most important to you (as opposed to important to someone else -- the only alternative). It isn't hard to consciously or unconsciously delegate this responsibility -- and others often attempt to make delegation easy (if not obligatory) -- but no one can truly take this responsibility from you.

How important to you is the on-going survival of humankind? How important to you is the on-going survival of your country? How important to you is the on-going survival of your friends and family? And how important is it to you that you remain alive -- and how long would you like to remain alive?

Suicide counseling is primarily for people who are undecided about the value of life. The suicide counselor can attempt to remind or inform the despairing person of the potential pleasures of life -- or attempt to suggest ways to end pain and depression. But a person lacking the will to live usually has no motivation to find a reason to live. The suicide counselor is helpless to change a person who innately experiences life as being something negative -- helpless to find goals & values that would be meaningful. Many (if not most) people will eagerly choose death as a means to stop physical or emotional pain if the pain is intense enough and if the prospect of the pain ending seems bleak.

Well in short we have to live our life to the fullest. Or else we will regret it. Do it while u can. Never give up.

WERID

After reading some blog and have lots of query in it.

Why would someone be so pessimistic of saying tat "when you died, you bring nothing to to "the other world", even people say of you, think of you, it doesn't mean anything, we shouldn't left anything behind of us." ??? why??  
and oso "there are no after life, we starting as a dust, end as a dust, the only thing we left behind, what we done when we alive, it's only will be come memories that will slowly forgotten by others, not many people will be like Albert Einstein, Hitler, we should accept this."
 If tis person thinks tis way than wat's the use of tat person to be born in this world?? ppl were born and died .tis is the cycle of life no one can escape from it. don't u think is very negative kind of thinking?? we born in this world we might not know wat will we become wat is the purpose of us in this world even Albert Einstein doesn't know tat his existence will bring him to be such great person! WHO THE HELLS KNOW TAT??? maybe only god..All those great person how they know they will even bring greatness in this world?? they just simply do wat they like the most by DOING THEIR BEST IN IT!! They follow their Passion ,compassion and Interest in it therefore by HARD WORK and persistence only can lead to great inventions or philosophy. N by so lucky or coincident they created something or some philosophy tat contribute much to the world. Do they know tat they will be so famous and remembered?? They do not know at all.
 
We all human being Start as A LIFE , A beautiful remarkable soul and about the ENDING is how u want to make it end, the form u rather be an unnoticed person who don't even want to try to do their best in everything but rather just be a normal guy who might just really end as a normal and little respect from ppl kind of DUST. or u want end as a 'Dust' who had tried hard for everything and go with full power and try and try and try to contribute to the society and the END might be sweet for the person and oso others as well. so why now think of tis way of not trying to do the best rather than just be normal? a person with no ambitious or always think negatively tat HE will NEVER GOING TO be as smart or as popular as ALBERT EINSTEIN and so he rather give up of TRYING to even do EVERYTHING their best is the person who will never going far. who will really end as a dirty ,little 'dust'.

So why why and why we won't make our life famous and useful maybe might not be as remarkable or remembered by so many ppl as Albert Einstein who is one in a million. WHy not we live our life to the fullest?? 

Monday, March 30, 2009

If you don't know what you wanna be in the future

Tis is what i learn from people.. Those words were wise and should be taken in deep consideration for people who stil doesn't know what to do or wat he/she want to be in the future. Just to Share...

#Start with the end of mind. If you don't know what you wanna be in the future, you won't know what to do.

visualize what you wish/want/will become in the future. 
Imagine you are dead, and on your funeral, what others said about you.
That will be you when you are dead, you will know what you wanna become.

if u dunno what u wan to be~ then just list down what u dun wan to be~ then eventually u will know wat u wan to be~ smth lk differential diagnosis~ u rule out all the not possible and treat the highest possibility~!! #


KEEP GOING ON!!!

生活中许多困难和问题都是假造的巨石,关键是我们有没有去推一推的勇气罢了。

町並みに咲き誇る傘彩(いろどり)の世界
花達は求めてた恵を受けて明日の晴れを待つだろう
The bloomed umbrellas on the streets… The colorful world…
Let’s accept the blessing that the flowers sought and wait for tomorrow’s clear weather.


There's no THE END for everything is just whether u want it to be an END or not. Is all completely up to how u think, how u want it.

There aint no road to happiness, Happiness is the road. You don't wait for something to happen to make you happy. You make something happen =)

以微笑面对困难,以智慧面对挑战。

I am walking away~~

Love tis song~~ Craig David "Walking away"~~

I'm walking away from the troubles in my life
I'm walking away oh to find a better day
I'm walking away from the troubles in my life
I'm walking away oh to find a better day
I'm walking away

sometimes some people get me wrong
when it's something I've said or done
sometimes you feel there is no fun
that's why you turn and run
but now I truly realise 
some people don't wanna compromise
well I saw them with my own eyes spreading those lies
and well I don't wanna live a lie, too many sleepless nights
not mentioning the fights, I'm sorry to say lady

I'm walking away from the troubles in my life
I'm walking away oh to find a better day
I'm walking away from the troubles in my life
I'm walking away oh to find a better day
I'm walking away

Well I'm so tired baby
things you say you're driving me away
whispers in the powder room baby 
don't listen to the games they play
girl I thought you'd realise 
I'm not like them other guys
coz I saw them with my own eyes
you should've been more wise
and well I don't wanna live a lie, too many sleepless nights
not mentioning the fights, I'm sorry to say lady

I'm walking away from the troubles in my life
I'm walking away oh to find a better day
I'm walking away from the troubles in my life
I'm walking away oh to find a better day
I'm walking away

Monday, March 23, 2009

Changes??

Change change change...
ppl do need to adjust and hv few changes to be better..
we learn from our mistakes..
n make the changes...
to be a better person...
how define changes?
changes can be turn into good or bad..
now i really do not know whether my changes is good or bad...
but i do feel my changes is good..
my 'changes' in my so called friend's eye is bad...
i was so feeling weird now..
wat kind of changes is it actually??
the way i write more general??
i just realised a person cannot obey two persons..
but i intend to follow only one ...
still my parents..

Priorities..

something must be given priorities first...
learn to differentiate between the important and not..

i hv been making mistakes in differentiate those...

well..
at least now..
i realised..
i know how..
but still...
the hardest part is doing it..
and i intend..
promise myself through writing it out here..
tat i will learn n differentiate it clearly and wisely...
so that i will never ever regret it again and agian...

i had my focus..
so now is executing it...
I will bear tis in my mind...
tis piece of advice from my parents...

Define clearly and wisely ur priorities!!


Better me!!

few days ago..
my friend gave me a disappointing kind of support..
it was indeed disappointing..
the kind of support which isn't going to make u feel good for wat u choose..
wat u choose to go on...
is tat the kind of support u should give??
my parents who know me better than anyone does give me the proper and appropriate support..
but why can't u?
u give me the kind of support which will make me feel really bad...

but at least now is ok...
we agreed tat we will go on with our interest...
to be excellent in wat we are going to do...
n at least now everything is ok...
n a new chapter of my life is going to begin..

many bad habit will be thrown...
new me will be formed..
a better me..
n i intend and insist not to make the same mistakes again and again...
never and ever...
i have a chance now...
n i will grab on to the chance..
and move on!!!
STRONG AND TOUGH!!

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Treasure...

Parents are always right..
they are the only person who will care about u more than anyone else...
they are the only person who will think of a better solutions..
we should always hear wat parents' say..
cause wat they said and do is for our own good...
i should be so glad and happy to have such wonderful family...
really grateful..
and thank god for everything...

they support me in my decisions..
they know me better than anyone else...
they know my weakness and the good sides..
they understand me well the most...
they think of me more than others..
they want the best for me...
they scare me get hurt...
they scare me hv too much unnecessary burden...
they just simply put their children in the highest priority even above theirs...
My Parents is simply the Greatest!!
I believe every parents is the same...
some didn't show it much..
but deep down inside..
they love their children..
they care their children...
so treasure them!
treasure what u have!
while u can...
time do not wait..
we cannot buy times...
even the wealtiest unable to retrieve those moments...
if can..
is the best...
but that is just the fact...
we can't buy time...

so ..
simple..
Treasure every single days..
every single moments..
with ur love one...
let them know..
show them..
prove it...
and make them proud!! 
let them have the honour!!

Confession....

My first blog .. 
just to express my feeling..
these few days been like a hell to me.. 
chaotic..
but these few days also been like a brain washing days to me...
brain wash to a better me...
to make me realise a lot and a lot....
I guess i should change the 'hell' to 'heaven'..
i realised a lot.. 
sometimes people don't really care... 
they want but they are unable.. 
they can't provide u real and beneficial care..
those care are more on comforting a soul..
a loss direction soul..
just comforting... 
show their care...
the comfort only works temporary..
it can't really help much.. 
for a long term....
in these hours...
even friends can't help much..
but i never say i do not need friends..
i been lucky and happy to know many many true and good friends...
they been nice and good to me...
but at this failing moments...
is all cause by my own failing act...
my unmatured thinking back then...
they support me ...
but stil it can't change anything..
n i stil appreciate their comforting and support...
with their support and love i surely will grew stronger and tougher...

i do get some sms and phone calls of concern from my dear friends..
i cried few times when my friends call anxiously..
asking me..
concerning me...
i am really grateful for those calls..
thanks agian..
and some stil keep in inform of wat to look at...
grateful once again...
grateful to have them as my friends..
but still they can't help much...

so in these hours...
these critical hours...
direction losses hours...
the one that really show cares , support, and beneficial advices..
the one who scold u but oso blame themselves as they think they are one of the cause for my failure today...(honestly they weren't)
the one stil hug u and kiss u even u fail them...
that is the Biggest comfort a person could have..
I am such a lucky girl..
even i fail once again and again..

my Parents...
My dad..
after knowing my failure...
he didn't get mad...
rather than pissed off with me..
he show the other kind of way of making me completely ashamed with my achievement...
he ask clearly my interest...
help me analyze..
every single pros and cons...
n bring me to seek advices..
he didn't even mad at me...
when i cried..
he comfort me..
encouraging me to forget the past and go on...

my mom...
she hug me once i get back..
without a word..
she just hug me..
the hug.. 
was so warm..
and it meant everything to me...
i felt ashamed once again....
and yet it really motivate me a lot...
her loving and caring..

my parents...
are great...
I love them with all my heart..
and I promise myself...
no matter what i do and go in the future..
I will make them proud!!!

also..
my brothers..
they give me lots of encouraging words...
and lots of advices...
love them..
I really am a lucky girl...
to have them open the roads for me...
yet i didn't appreciate and fully used wat they give me...

also..
my grandma..
she is the first i cried to...
for my failure...
she comfort me in another way..
which oso stimulate me a lot...

tat's all for this first blog..
confession ..