Saturday, February 26, 2011

Love~

常常觉得,谈恋爱的人就像小孩子一样

要宠着哄着,要时时陪伴,更要无微不至

还记得吗?

在我们很小的时候只要看不见妈妈,就会因为不安而大哭起来

其实,妈妈只是不在我们的眼前

我们只因为眼前看不见,所以就认为妈妈不见了

认为妈妈不见了的同时,也以为妈妈不爱我们了

恋爱,不就跟那时的我们很像吗?

在被拥抱的时候,听对方说情话的时候,手牵手逛街的时候,

我们都觉得对方是百分之百地爱着我们

可是,就从道了再见,关上家门的那一刻起

内心悬念,因为见不到,担心对方有没有想念我们

听不到,见不到的我们,忧虑对方会不忠于我们

只因为不在我们身边,我们就以为爱会不见

却不知道,不在身边的她,不等于不爱你

很多事情,看不到不等于不存在

而且,每一个人都是恋爱中的人

所以,不安的不只我们,还有看不见我们的她

彼此,都有着一样的不安,都期望相同的谅解

有时候,我们会抱怨当我们需要她的时候,他不在身旁

可有些时候,她最需要我们的时候,我们也不知情,不是吗

我想,很多人在年轻的时候,都会很热衷于工作

也有很多人的工作,属于长期需要超时工作的状态

对这些人的恋人来说,也许觉得心爱的人常常无法照顾自己

可对那些人来说也是相同的,心爱的人常常不在身边

不管因为什麽原因无法见面或分隔两地

真心相爱的两个人,内心所感受的寂寞与不安会是相同的

彼此,都有可能在最需要对方的时候

却必须一个人坚强起来

她是爱你的,就如同看不见她的你

还是深深爱着她的,不是吗

吃到好吃的东西时,看到美丽的景物时,都会希望和她分享

她不在身边的时候,你不也抱着这样的心情在爱她吗

为何,就不能相信她也和你一样呢?

你说是吗?

我相信,真心相爱的两个人

就算不在彼此身边,还是深深爱着的

两颗心,也会因为着爱,而紧紧相系

喜欢一个人 何必在意先说出口

想跟一个人牵著手一直一直走下去

分享自己的喜怒哀愁

这样美丽的心情 难得

我们都要学着更温柔

对爱我们或我们爱的人

认真接受

认真付出

遗憾与後悔 比什么都让人难过

别让幸福又由身边流失了

更珍惜所有的一切 ~

所以~我會好好的珍惜我所擁有的~

Believe in me~

As I always believe in you~

Friday, April 17, 2009

小哲理

放弃一些我们的固执,狭隘,和一些优势的话,我们可能会得到更多。

做每样事情时,不妨站在其他人的角度看一看,想一想吧!

想改变世界,很难;要改变自己,则较为容易。
与其改变全世界,不如先改变自己--「将自己的双脚包起来」。
改变自己的某些观念和作法,以抵御外来的侵袭。
当自己改变后,眼中的世界自然也就跟着改变了。
如果你希望看到世界改变,那么第一个必须改变的就是自己!!

不要时常埋怨,不要时常感到不满,不要时常有很多怨恨,不要时常问为什么挨骂的又是我呢??不要问上天 / 社会 /家庭 / 老板给于我们什么东西,问一问自己到底给于/付出于什么东西给于他们呢??不要尝试叫环境适应你而是我们要学会适应环境^^我们要学会改变的就是自己,一起迎合美好的一切!!
若改变,态度就会改变;态度改变,习惯就改变;习惯改变,人生就会改变。」

=)

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Persistence

Persistence- Roy Kroc, founder of McDonald 

 

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence

Talent cannot, nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent

Genius  will not, unrewarded genius is almost a proverb 

Education will not, the world is full of educated derelicts

Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent

To study well.....


#To study well, you must:

 

(1)    Have a clear, unwavering aim, focus on it. Do not be distracted by other things.Beware !

 

(2)    Face your failure directly and openly. Be honest with yourself and others; if you do not understand, admit it AND find ways and means to understand, do not stop until you do. Do not ignore it, runaway from it.

 

 

(3)    Take full and sole responsibility for your study. Don’t blame teacher, books, friends, environment or anything at all. You and you alone are responsible for your study. Others are mere helps or tools to achieve that purpose.

 

(4)    Have good study habits:  Read up before lecture instead of gossiping.

 Pay full attention on the lecture, not how the lecturer dress,talk, walk etc Take notes, even if lecture notes are given.

Look through all notes taken and given  during the day before sleeping.

Regular  revision. Ask yourself honestly what have you learnt. 

Turn off handphone during lecture and while doing revision. 

Nothing else is more important than learning as much as possible. 

Proper posture; do not study on bed. 

No music when studying. #  

Most important u got to hv a clear define aims... do ur best!!

                                                         

                                                   

                                                                                                                  

                                                   

                                                                                                                                                               

                                                   

                                                   

  


Wednesday, April 1, 2009

how to determine fullest?

#how to determine fullest?
when albert einstien were young, people said he is an idiot, can't learn anything in school, well, maybe 99.99 people think he is an idiot,and say he is wasting his time learning, maybe they said einstein didn't use his life fully, but he continue, so, is 99.99% people was right, or albert einstein is right?#

I believe in tat 99.99% there's ppl think he didn't fully use his time in study he didn't concentrate at all at his study when he was young. so tat's why the 99.99% ppl will think tat way. But Einstein prove them wrong! So what's the point of who saying who now? Rather being insult and look down by those 99.99% ppl ,Einstein stand up again, took against all odds ,he make his way up! The most important is not critic or say anything bad about tat 99.99% ppl ,saying who is right and who is wrong but is the process of his journey to the greatness!! The determination of his without caring how ppl say about him is the spirit tat everyone should learn from it not saying who is right and who is wrong!!   

In short we all should just try our best in everything rather than achieve nothing in the end. We can't be as great as Albert Einstein but we can try to be a usefull human being, contribute to these society.

Cheer up!! =)

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Five Simple Words You Need to Live Life to the Fullest

How do you define a meaningful life? Follow these five powerful words to find out how to live life wisely

Laugh

Like they say, laughter is the best medicine. No illness or worries can weigh you down when laughter is all you need to keep your spirits high and keep you moving ahead. Whenever you are feeling moody, try to force a laugh. Although it might be going against your true mood at that moment, you never know how your laughter, though a forced one, can lead to more silly laughter. And more often than not, you would laugh at how silly you were. You can choose to live a day by being happy or not. Whatever it is, the day would still pass eventually. So why not make it a happy one?

Reflect

It is always essential to reflect on the things you have done. Each night before you sleep, reflect on what you have done in the day. Have you accomplished something? Have you met the goals of the day? Or have you let the hours gone to waste? It is good to keep a personal diary. Reflect on your thoughts of the day. And write down your goals and future aspirations. When you have met them, reflect and track your own progression. Did you do your best? Is there any room for improvements?

Learn

Life has always been a journey of learning. You learnt since the day you were born, the day you opened your eyes to the world. You learnt about the colours in this world, the sounds of your surroundings, the place you grew up in, the people around you. There are so many things in life to learn. It is really more than what you learn in school. You need to observe and learn whenver you can. Life is short. And you only live once. Why not make full use of it by learning as much as you can? There is really a lot to learn everyday. Books, magazines, newspapers, television, internet. Pick up some hobbies or things you have strong interest in. Develop your own interest and passion in those field. Thinking of picking up the piano? Well, do it! Who knows you can tap into what you have learnt and make a living out of it!

Relax

Life really isn't all about work. The hectic societal life has forced us to be concerned about work and money, about promotion, recognition, and acknowledgements. While we do slog hard for all these, we must not forget about one thing. It is to relax. Try to have at least 8 hours of sleep a day. Research has shown that having sufficient sleep makes the mind work better the following day, as it rejuvenates and refreshes. Leave the weekends aside for some family and relationship activities, some quality social time with friends, or to indulge in some personal hobbies. If possible, go for a holiday! You deserve a break, you know it.

Love

It is the most desired asset of all. It is a universal language. A life without love is a life not lived. It is true. We all want to feel appreciated by the people around us. We want our parents to be proud of us, family to be always around us for moral support, our partners or spouses to be there to share our happiness and sorrows. We all want to be loved unconditionally. We need to start from ourselves. Have you told somebody you love him or her? Have you been donating to charities and spreading love to others? Have you neglected someone because of busy work schedule? Have you forgotten to love? To love and to be loved, that is the greatest thing that one can ever learn.

Live life to the fullest!!


Life is short
 
Break the rules
 
forgive quickly
 
kiss passionately, love truly
 
laugh constantly
 
And never stop smiling 
no matter how strange life is
 
Life is not always the party we expected to be
 
but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.